Our greatest strengths are our greatest weaknesses

Thank your weaknesses for the strength that you have

True that, we are being driven by our weaknesses, to be what we are today, because you wouldn't know your strength if you didn't have weaknesses. Most of the time we are being challenged and it seems like things will never be the same, we tend to throw the towel, with out knowing that is the begining of new things. There were times that I wanted to give up, it is not easy to face your weaknesses, as hard as it is, you have to look on the bright side of your weaknesses, at that moment you don't know the out comes of the situation, but after you have pulled through, you will see your greatest strength.

How would you know your greatest strength if you don't get weak, facing those things that you know are going to put you down, at that time is where you test yourself how strong you are, because if we were not tested how would we know whether we can make it or not. Sometimes I feel so glad that I have weaknesses, because it is where by I can see that I'm still alive and how strong I am, and I'm glad to know that I can face my weaknesses, because I know I have strength to face them. If you can't change the circumtances, change yourself. We cannot choose what will happen to us,but we can choose what happen in us,that is, We can choose to have right attitude, in whch we view challenges as opportunities instead of problems. Choose to be positive.

We go through tribulations and most of the time we tend to think that is the end of the world,but it is not and forgetting that God is there to hold our hands, when we are about to fall. I'm just thinking right now, It's not easy to bare a pain, especially when you feel that no one will understand what you going through, the only think I can say now is this "hang on and you shall prosper" and thank your weaknesses, because they have given you the greatest strength.

feelings follow behaviour

Lets feel what we behave

Have to agree with this, We don't just behave the way we do with out the feelings behind it. I came to realisation that, what makes people react/behave the way they do, it's because of the way they feel about certain things. Feelings are the most difficult to remove from yourself, even when at times you don't want to behave the way you are behaving at that moment, but because of the way you are feeling at that moment. Feelings makes us do things that we don't like and we tend to hurt ourselves by acting on those feelings.

Most people have lost value, because of their feelings, you get hurt and you become bitter, after that you take an easy way out,because of that temporary situation and you make permanent decision. We are being driven by our feelings, if you can put feelings a side for a moment and think on how you were going to be if you didn't have feelings. In whatever you do make sure that your feelings don't ruin your life, because in most cases we find ourselves in situations that are hard to be taken out, and is your responsibility to pull yourself out from that situation.

At the very same time feelings help you alot, because they make you a better person, because you behave according to the way you feel, and most of the time you change a person's life, because of your feelings. Feel,touch and behave. Feelings follow behaviour,what you feel inside, you want to act on it so that people can know how you feel with out realising that you are showing your feelings.

It is better to practice little than to talk alot

Practice what you preach, and you shall prosper

Amen to that, I believe that most of the time we talk alot than practicing what we preach. The reason that we fail most of the time we say things that we won't be able to do. There are things in life that are not easy to do even though they are easy to say, because you say this thing with your heart and mouth, and it becomes so hard to apply what you have just said to yourself and someone next to you.

I have faced those moments where by I would say something with the excitement in me, but later on I can't apply what i have just said to myself, that is where I found out that this was a problem. There are people who speak so little, but when it comes to work they are very good, you never see those people struggling with things,because they know what is expected of them.

Those who talk alot, find it so hard to put what they say into action, and that becomes so frustrating at the end of they day, because you end up wasting time on talking than to do what you are suppose to do. We dream/have visions, so why does it become so difficult to push ourselves on achieving our goals, you start a race, what makes you stop from finishing that race. Lets talk less and spend most of our time on practicing what we say and we shall see the results of what we do, and those positive results.

It is a poor idea to lie to yourself

Never lie to yourself, that is a worst decision ever!!

Lying to yourself is the most easiest thing ever, especial when you are trying to run away from something. At many times we lie to ourselves and thinking that we are going to get away with it, but the funny part is that you are lying to yourself and is quite difficult to ignore the fact that, this thing is going to eat you. To all the experience that I had in my life, about not being true to myself has cost me dearly and I don't want to go back to that route again, because it's not a nice feeling at all. We go through many tribulations and sometimes we don't want to share what we feel inside with others and that makes the pain to be more and you end up lying to yourself, by ignoring the fact that you are in pain and pretend that everything is okay.

We must face the reality, if things are not going according to our plans, we just have to face that temporary situation, because one thing I know is that everything that you are going through is just a passage to your destination and there is no point lying to yourself about it, you just have to face the situation and be strong till it pass. We lie to ourselves about so many things and it is a poor idea to do that, because it leaves you with a guilty conscious and you become so stressed over nothing and that is not healthy at all, believe you me. I guess we should try so hard to be true to ourselves and that will make us people, and enjoy life and live for the moment.

Not all who wonder are lost

Just wondering!

There is nothing wrong to wonder on how you are going to live your life, but taking too much time thinking about it can be a problem. Most of us spend our time thinking what is my next step and forgetting that time is ticking and when you waste time it never returns to you or anyone. Not all who wonder are lost indeed, I remember there was a time where by I wanted to be in the law side, and also wanted to be a fashion designer, but ended up doing Public Relations which i'm happy about and I have achieved my goal, still going.

We dont have to stop wondering, because you may never know, where your destiny is, and it gives us a chance to find the inner you, maybe along the way you got lost and by wondering you find the real you. Most of the people wasted their time wondering, they failed to achieve their goals, because they kept changing their statements everytime and thinking of something that will make the road easy, unfortunately there's not an easy road, those who take any easy way end-up getting lost along the way. "I have been wondering what/where am I going to be in few years to come", I'm not only wondering, I'm doing something about that, because you wonder and put it into action.

Lets make things happen for ourselves and think about the generation to come, so that we may not become failures infront of their eyes and fail them dismally. "Don't just stand there Do something about your situation". Not all of us are lost, we just need some encouragement/ motivation from other people so that we may not be lost on wondering.

How to step from a 100 foot- pole ?

Are you ready to step from a 100 foot- pole?

Oh well! I think that, stepping from a 100 foot pole it's not quite an easy battle to face. Looking down from a tall building is not a nice picture and thinking that you will fall and break some other parts of your body or maybe die. It's up to us to take us through failings, dissapointments, and tribulations and it depends on you to make your way up and prevent yourself from going down. At some point you have to be in the wilderness and there's nothing we can do about that, in order to see that you are strong, you have to face challenges and deal with the situation no matter how hard it is.

Failing to prepare yourself for things that will make your heart to beat faster is dangerous and it might kill you, because you are not in the right position, which i believe that you have to be ready for anything whether is good or bad. Stepping from 100 foot- pole is very challenging, and I have been in those situations where I felt like I was weak, clueless, and felt like I was alone, no one was feeling my pain even though people were around, I kept asking myself questions "how am I going to be able to pull myself from this pole, but there's always a way out. God is God of everything and is waiting for us to claim our things from him and be obedient so that when you are out from the 100 foot-pole you can remember where you were before.

The question is " are you reday to step from a 100 foot- pole"?, take a moment and think about that and begin to act on that.

We are what we do

You are what you Do!

I have to agree with the statement, definitely we are what we do. At times we do things and try to make justification for the the things that we do. I believe that we bring most of the dissapointments in our lives about the choices we make and thinking that we are going to handle the matter without any hustle, that is a problem. What you do represent the person you are and I fail to understand, how we tend to blame other people about the way we behave, we like to say "someone made me to be like this" okay I understand at times people like to push us to the limits, however at that moment you had a choice to make the matter different, but you didn't and who's to blame you or the person that's the question you may have to answer within you.

Brothers and sisters lets understand one thing, God created you to be the person that he wants you to be and as we go along with things of this earth we tend to forget our purpose in this earth and we try so hard to be people that we are not suppose to be, just because we want to fit in where ever we are at that moment. Lets not change the people that we are because of peer pressure, we might loose who we are and become what we are not, because our behavior determines where we are going.